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The Myth of More: Why Chasing Extremes Rarely Improves Our Lives


We live in an age obsessed with maximums. A phone that charges in ten minutes. An electric car with 500 miles of range. A house with twice the rooms you’ll ever enter. These promises dazzle us, yet in practice they rarely change how we live. After all, if you charge your phone overnight and drive less than 50 miles a day, what good is a spec sheet that brags about capacities you’ll never touch?

This is not just about gadgets. It’s about how we make choices in life. We are conditioned to equate “more” with “better,” and in doing so we chase excess we don’t need while overlooking the sufficiency we already have.

The Treadmill That Outruns Us

Consider the fitness enthusiast who buys a treadmill capable of sprint speeds fit for an Olympic runner. Ninety-nine percent of its life, that machine will only hum along at a walking pace. The extra capability sits unused, gathering dust, while the real determinant of health was never the treadmill’s top speed but the owner’s consistency. The lesson? It’s not what the tool can do in theory, but what you actually do with it that matters.

The Kitchen Drawer of Dreams

Kitchen gadgets tell the same story. Drawers full of spiralizers, sous-vide sticks, and professional-grade knives end up overshadowed by the same old frying pan. We buy for imagined lives: gourmet chefs, rugged explorers, high-powered executives. But most days, we’re reheating leftovers, commuting to work, and trying to get the kids to bed on time.

The Career of Chasing Titles

Our careers fall prey to this trap, too. Many pursue prestige jobs not because they align with personal goals, but because they seem to represent “more.” More money. More status. More responsibility. Yet how many of those people later admit they’d trade some of that “more” for a little less stress and a little more time with their families?

Enough Is Often Perfect

The truth is, most of life happens within ordinary margins. Most of us don’t need eight bedrooms, a car that can ford rivers, or a degree from the most exclusive university. What we need are tools, jobs, and relationships that align with how we actually live—not with hypothetical extremes.

There’s a quiet power in recognizing “enough.” A phone that charges overnight. A car that covers your daily routes. A job that pays the bills and leaves time for joy. Enough doesn’t mean settling; it means aligning our lives with reality instead of fantasy.

The Freedom of Limits

When we stop coveting maximums, we free ourselves. We stop spending money on capabilities that don’t matter. We stop comparing ourselves to extremes that don’t apply. We begin to ask: what do I actually need for the life I’m living today?

That question, simple as it sounds, is radical. It cuts through advertising hype, social pressure, and personal ego. It invites us to be satisfied not with the maximum, but with the meaningful.

Because at the end of the day, the measure of a good life isn’t whether your phone charges in ten minutes or your car drives 500 miles—it’s whether you’ve charged your own life with enough joy, purpose, and connection to make the journey worth it.


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